Let me be clear, in case you didn’t already know.
I’m not the most social person. I like to sit at home with my books and my dog and my coffee and my things. I’m a homebody, and always have been.
I’m not gonna just show up anywhere. Your house, a party, a social gathering, anywhere. That’s not who I am. If you want me there, tell me. If you need help, ask. I’ll be there to do whatever you tell me to. I may not know anything about what I’m doing, but I’ll be there to help.
I respect your privacy and mine too much to just invade your space without an invitation.
It’s not a matter of me not liking you, or not wishing you the best. It’s literally who I am.